I can relate to your problem... I'll be turning 30 soon, and it is frustrating. It's sad that society pressures young people to get into a sexual relationship before X age, despite the practicalities of many people's lives not always making that comfortable or even feasible. While I understand starting families young leads to more time for parenting the children and such, I think such virgin-shaming only leads to people forcing themselves into relationships sooner than they are ready, resulting in a ton of failed romances and high divorce rates. It isn't a good aspect of our modern society.
So I would say, don't worry about the peer pressure and backlash you may receive from still being a virgin. Just wait until you find someone you like, who loves you back, and then you can have a happy romantic (and perhaps sexual) relationship with them in the future. If you don't get into a relationship with somebody you genuinely love, there's really no point in the whole thing, and it will only lead to a ton of stress, financial problems, and potentially even heartbroken kids in the future. : (
ShadeUncut
Cute, & funny....unless you were serious.
If you are, have you ever thought about escorts? Throw enough $$ at one & she'll do whatever you want. You gotta be careful about finding one, though...cops do run sting ops to catch johns. Stay away from the streetwalkers & anyone who is not an obvious adult, do your research before contacting one, & you should be okay.
raphaelcarrard
sometimes, I feel like hiring a prostitute just to solve this virginity problem. but I never did it for several reasons, money, police, my parents who wouldn't like it, the age of the prostitute (whether she's an adult or not),...
so, what I can do (the best thing in my opinion and that of my parents) is wait and find someone who truly loves me, and who knows, get married, have sex, have children and start a family. This will take some time, but that's okay, I wait calmly