while I see people doing well in life having sex in real life, I'm still a virgin and on fap, and that's not very good. Soon I'll be as old as that guy in the movie "The 40 Year-Old Virgin"
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I can relate to your problem... I'll be turning 30 soon, and it is frustrating. It's sad that society pressures young people to get into a sexual relationship before X age, despite the practicalities of many people's lives not always making that comfortable or even feasible. While I understand starting families young leads to more time for parenting the children and such, I think such virgin-shaming only leads to people forcing themselves into relationships sooner than they are ready, resulting in a ton of failed romances and high divorce rates. It isn't a good aspect of our modern society.
So I would say, don't worry about the peer pressure and backlash you may receive from still being a virgin. Just wait until you find someone you like, who loves you back, and then you can have a happy romantic (and perhaps sexual) relationship with them in the future. If you don't get into a relationship with somebody you genuinely love, there's really no point in the whole thing, and it will only lead to a ton of stress, financial problems, and potentially even heartbroken kids in the future. : (
I agree with you
You are doing great, don't despise yourself for fapping.
oh... ok, thank you :)
@raphaelcarrard if you feel shameful and too perverted for your life and it makes you look like a loser, then join no fap. Be forewarned though, since you started it, the feeling will be crazy to get out, relapsing will be high.
sometimes, I feel embarrassed to tell some friends that I'm still a virgin. If it wasn't for life's failures (and Zone-Tan suggestion), I wouldn't have joined fap. but this will improve with time, one day I will find someone who will truly love me in the same way that I love her too.
And that’s why I intend to lose my virginity when I get a girlfriend. That’s relatable in many ways.
In fact, i had a girlfriend a few years ago, but i never had sex with her :(
My brother i have something to say to you may i ?
yes, can say
@raphaelcarrard if i can see , i am 4 years older than you, i am not a virgin and also i masturbate regulary , listen, being without someone is a pain but being.with someone that will destroy you is worse, i know you feel desesperate and isolated with anger many times , but i assure you that the thing that you require ia work on yourself , live your life as you like and with proper activities and going to places you enjoy, with exercise, art , music ,you will find someone (good) , and if it will be your first relationship may not work but if it do so, you will be able to find a real pure stone , hookers are not the way , and escorta either , become the best you can be for yourself and then gradually someone will show up , even so you require to make the work too, going.out , taking to girls , many of them are awfull and egotistal but some are the most lovely one , if you want to masturbate do it so, but do not let it control you , as all on life you require a balance and if your body ask for eyaculate it will do it , on dreams, by your hand etc , i am currently dealing with loneliness for being alone many years and for a past prospect that destroyed me , but i am working to do my best and be my best, exercising, opening a bussiness, studying to be a better man, and i still do masturbate, yoi are not less for not having sex with anyone , you are trying to life on very rotten world , has strenght brother and hope my advice go good
bro, thank you very much for your advice. That was all I needed. It's just that the day I published this news post, I posted it in a moment of frustration and sadness. Now I don't worry about it so much anymore, but I also don't want to die alone. I've thought about going to a nightclub or something, but my parents and some friends discouraged me from doing that, because it's not worth it. So, the best thing to do is to be patient and wait for someone to truly love me so I can get married and then, think about sex and starting a family. Once again, thank you so much for your advice and all my other friends who gave me advice too. this made me relieved
@Zshocolate-sama oh, and of course, while I wait for someone to appear in my life, I will continue producing my animations, games, music and art (I even intend to start doing 3D soon)
@raphaelcarrard happy to help always brother , go ahead , the life will not take you down
@raphaelcarrard anxiousky waiting.for allll
What was the reason for that, @raphaelcarrard?
she simply said she didn't want to have sex with me, only if I married her :(
Well then, @raphaelcarrard. Is she a Christian?
yes, and me too
Well it wouldn’t hurt for some people to have sex before marriage, @raphaelcarrard. My parents have done that before and they were married when my mother was pregnant with me.
yes, I've seen cases like that. my older brother, for example, never married, but he has had sex with some (few) girls, most of them on dating apps (for example: Tinder). I just don't use these apps anymore because I almost fell victim to a scam a while ago.
When was there a scam, @raphaelcarrard? How did you almost fell victim to that?
the girl i met was different from the photo, instead of being a pretty, she was an ugly and wanted to hurt me. then I get out.
That right there is called a catfish scam, @raphaelcarrard. To hell with those hideous God-forsaken freaks on Earth!
exactly!
Let’s just hope that we could find actual pretty women, @raphaelcarrard. For the sake of our manhood.
yea! that's right
Indeed, @raphaelcarrard!:)
@InfinityIsaiah2022 @raphaelcarrard to try dating apps is the dumbest way to find your love, if I tell you the truth there will be competition, that is why no one is being honest with you how to get your girl.
truth :( well, while I still don't find a girl, I'll continue focusing on my personal projects. this post was just a moment of frustration I had that day.
preeeetty sure you are not actually 24, but maybe if you had something better to talk about than videogames to girls, and maybe if you were a little more interesting and approachable, you would have no problems getting a date. I'm not saying this in any personal or offensive way, matter of fact i don't know anything about you at all. I'm just saying this because is what it boils down to for most people that complain about this kind of thing on the internet. Just try to be interesting. That's what women like. Interesting people. That's it. If you are decent enough from the get go then it will be no problem. Am i making sense here?
yes, total sense. just one detail, I'm actually 24 years old, because I was born in 1999, but in a few months I'll be turning 25. this post was just a moment of frustration I had that day. unfortunately, there are still people who bully people who are virgins, and it ruins the person's mind. It's like they think I'm a failure, but I don't care about that.
@raphaelcarrard Just keep going and think one day you'll get there. I'm rooting for you.
thanks ^^
ShadeUncut
Cute, & funny....unless you were serious.
If you are, have you ever thought about escorts? Throw enough $$ at one & she'll do whatever you want. You gotta be careful about finding one, though...cops do run sting ops to catch johns. Stay away from the streetwalkers & anyone who is not an obvious adult, do your research before contacting one, & you should be okay.
raphaelcarrard
sometimes, I feel like hiring a prostitute just to solve this virginity problem. but I never did it for several reasons, money, police, my parents who wouldn't like it, the age of the prostitute (whether she's an adult or not),...
so, what I can do (the best thing in my opinion and that of my parents) is wait and find someone who truly loves me, and who knows, get married, have sex, have children and start a family. This will take some time, but that's okay, I wait calmly